take all the religions and spiritual belief systems from all around the world.put them in a testtube and burn at a given temperature and distill out the common denominator.(78 degrees for alcohol).what do you get?if youre good you go to heaven and if your bad you go to hell.what is good and bad differs in different religions but theyre all fairly similar yardsticks.our problem is that our guilt,obsessiveness,fear,doubt etc leaves us with bad expectations for the afterlife,and our experience of mental anguish here on earth leaves us with no comprehension of what heaven is like.we are trapped.the solution?find peace here,do your best,lower your expectation levels,be busy without being compulsive,and leave the rest to god.