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Hi,

I want to buy an animal for me and my son. I never had a dog, but I would like to know your opinion on a little Cocker. Is having a dog is very troublesome? (My boyfriend doesn't want it) :)

And I wonder if a cat would be better. Which kind is cute and happy with childs?

If you have ideas, let mt know!!

Cyn xxx
 

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dogs can be troublesome when they are little puppies chewing stuff up and toilet training, but eventually can be very loyal and loving.

cats can be temprimental, loving or firery.....and males spray your house unless castrated.....i love cats....but you have to let them come to you when they want petting rather than when u choose.

so in the long run i would say get a dog..... :)
 

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Having owned many breeds of dogs and been around many fullbred and mutts...golden retrievers are my favorite for children - hands down. If you would like not to deal with the puppy stage, which can last up to 2 years, there are special people that rescue all age of dogs and try to find a good family that works for the dog and the people. We recently rescued a 4 or 5 year old springer spaniel. He is a handsome fellow and very kind and good natured. The only problem I have ever had with cockers is that they seem to "wet" when they get excited even after they are full grown. Anyone else run across this?

Cats...need to hear from some cat owners on this one. I have owned a few and had friends with cats. They are independant. You can leave them and they can use the litterbox almost from the time their little paws hit the ground. My Mom, who has a cat she loves, gets a magazine by the name of cat fancy. I once saw a breed of cat in there called a Maine **** Cat. They say this breed is very affectionate and behaves a lot like a dog. I'd love to see one or hear if anyone has one.

So there you have my humble thoughts. Think I might go and find a picture or two.
 

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either a cat or a dog. I never was without both my entire childhood and love them both. Dogs require lots of attention, while cats assume they'll get it. my only advice is consider an adult pet, and avoid inbreds if you decide to get a younger pet.
 
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I've always had both cats and dogs. Right now we have three cats, and Mollie the Collie. If you are getting a dog, you need to consider their temperment considering you have a small child. If I was in your position I would get something small-medium, not full bred (they tend to be more nervous), and a type known to be friendly with children. Cockers fit those criteria. We had one when I was a kid. Seems the me they shed a alot, bark (yip) even more, and tend to get ear infections often for some reason. I think you should try to find a Border Collie mix. Extremely intelligent animals, they do need quite a bit of attention. Most dogs do though. But they are great with kids, can be taught to do just about anything (and enjoy learning), and top out at not much more than 50 pounds so you don't have to worry about it sitting on your baby or anything. Downside - they tend to get a little funny when bored. Like, if you're gone for a whole day you may come home to find your couch has been eaten or something. Also, at least my Border Collie does not get along particularly well with other dogs. She loves cats though.
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p.s. like terri* says, Goldens are great. Probably would have gone with a retriever were it not for the fact that we were living in a very small house when we were looking for a dog this time. That type of dog spends most of it's life happy, and we were worried about tailwagging damage
 
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Damn, terri, the cat is awsome.

As for cynth's question, I would say if your boyfriend doesn't like it, a dog will bring troubles, not because of the dog itself but because of your boyfriend.

In general I would say that if you really intend to care about an animal, a dog is probably a good idea since it is much more affectionate.

Cats go their own way basically. They want to be fondled, eat and sleep. Thats about all there is.

Dogs want to cuddle, food, sleep, walks, attention, toys, play..........
 

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i say get both!

i'm more of a cat person, but i love my dog more than anything in the world. maybe even more than my mother.

SHELTIES ARE THE BEST DOGS EVER!!!! GET A SHELTIE!!!!!!!


aww!!! lookit all the little sheltie puppies!!!!!!

BE HAPPY GET A SHELTIE

the only thing about shelties is, when they're about 5-6 months only they might get a little teeth-happy, but a couple of yells in the face about it and they're sweetest dogs in the world. now my dog, lily, would rather go without eating for a week than biting anyone.

they're noisey, too. but they're so damn cute you just go "aww, look at lily, she's barking so loud the police are going to come to our house. how cute!"

they're also the smartest breed of dogs along with border colies, and they act like cats a lot of times. i don't know how i would have survived without a little shetland sheepdog by my side! my own little ball of fuzz.

and kids usually really love them because they only get to be about 25 lbs, average size (my dog is 20. she's pretty small), and kids seem to think "my size dog." if your son is really little, a lot of big dogs are really sweet, but kids are cautious about them because they're too big for them. shelties are the perfect size.
 
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OH OH OH!!!! Niyashi! Those Shelties!!!!!!!!!!!

I am in love.

Cynthia: the LAST thing you need right now is a dog or cat. My GOD girl, you can barely deal with your baby and boyfriend.

Get a beautiful pet once you're more stablized and your son is a bit older. He's too "rough" while still young - and a pet needs a boy who can realize how to touch gently.

There's plenty of time.

Peace,
J
 
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Thanks for your suggestions.

I will stay with my poor hamster. :( His name : passepoil. I don't like him, he is too shy. It runs in the family.

Maybe adopt a bird? :)

Or a red fish?

I really need animal! I already have 2 (my boyfriend and little boy) lol,
but I would love another one :) Maybe less stubborn (lol again!)

Cynthia xxx
 

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Cynthia said:
Thanks for your suggestions.

I will stay with my poor hamster. :( His name : passepoil. I don't like him, he is too shy. It runs in the family.

Maybe adopt a bird? :)

Or a red fish?

I really need animal! I already have 2 (my boyfriend and little boy) lol,
but I would love another one :) Maybe less stubborn (lol again!)

Cynthia xxx
OR YOU COULD GET A SHELTIE



they're just WAITING for home <3
 
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Nayashi!!! Get away from me with your evil Sheltie cult!!! They are so utterly gorgeous (and your Lily is so dear I want to hug her, bury my face in her thick coat and kiss the little streak up her nose).....

IF my own beloved canine would tolerate it, I would be ordering one of those Sheltie pups as we speak. I will no longer read any post of yours out of fear that something will be lurking that could steal my heart.

You and your evil photos are a terrible influence! Back, I say!!!

(tummy rubs to Lily)
J
 

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I'm basset hound all the way. the ones that look beagle-like.

i want twenty of them in a row.

this girl (the cute-as-a-button strange girl type) in my creative writing class, when we were talking about pets, silenced the room with "I have a schauzer named Hitler."

I think she is going to become my bestest friend in the whole school. that WAS just too damn funny.
 
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Hi,

If I had the choice I think I'd get a golden retriver...

And I would like to have a picture of a Cocker please ;) :)

And someone can tell me why I can't post pictures in my posts? I click on Img, then put a link, then click on Img, doesn't work.!

argh :0

(That my biggest problem in my life) lol

Cynthia xxx
 
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