Also, the thought of doing something or going outside of my house stresses me out a lot.
I used to go for runs with my father, but we got into some little argument, and, because he is extremely emotional, we don't run anymore. It's disappointing because running was actually helping me. Originally, I did it because I'm insecure of the way I look (my mind tells me I'm chubby), but it was also a great motivator. I'd like to do it again, but it's so difficult for me. It's even more difficult to get myself to find something new.I can relate to this on every level. After I joined my local gym I started to change but it was such a fucking expensive gym I had to discontinue my membership
So it seemed for me I had to force that first bit of effort to make a change and the rest just started to fall into place.
I am going to try get a job, do the same! Look for a new hobby, try something new? Maybe you're just bored of keeping the same regiment if you do.
Thank you, RonnieK. I realized that I'm able to clean some parts of the house, which pleases my mother and makes me feel a tad better.I started with DP when I was young. I don't think I've ever been content but I guess that helped me build a few businesses. I hope that you can find something to engage in. If you can try some things, eventually something will 'push back' and give you some motivation. I couldn't tell you what specifically. I would recomend that you pick ONE thing to do to assist in keeping your parents house up. Don't even discuss it, just do it. You are a valuable asset to this world and someone is waiting for you to make theirs better. I wish you the best.
Yeah, hanging out with friends always puts me in a good mood. However, no one has invited me to do anything. No one has even talked to me since school ended, which is very discouraging. I'm trying to work up the courage to actually make plans with one of my friends, but I'm afraid of being rejected because it'll only discourage me more.I'm right there with you man, I'm 16 and I'm extremely unmotivated and lazy, I actually got a couple of jobs for the summer to keep me occupied but I'm still extremely unmotivated, what has helped me is hanging out with my friends even when I don't want to because it always ends with me happy I went and having a good time, the thought of a lot of things is a lot scarier than actually doing it when dp'd is what I have noticed. Keep your head up.