Yeah, but Alice was a real bitch.
ANYWAY...You definately need to let your therapist know that his approach isn't working...communication with your therapist is important, and I have a hard time doing this. Even though I get along really well with my therapist, if I don't like what he is saying or his approach i dont' speak up and it just harms our relationship. It is part of my people pleasing thing, and I cant' even get rid of it with him...i think it's time for a new therapist, but I'm afraid that he'll be upset with me (see how lame I am), because I think he thinks we're doing well together and I think we've kind of reached what I can do with him, and I dont' go in there wanting to talk about my issues anymore...I find myself hiding them from him and that is not a good thing.
ANYWAY...You definately need to let your therapist know that his approach isn't working...communication with your therapist is important, and I have a hard time doing this. Even though I get along really well with my therapist, if I don't like what he is saying or his approach i dont' speak up and it just harms our relationship. It is part of my people pleasing thing, and I cant' even get rid of it with him...i think it's time for a new therapist, but I'm afraid that he'll be upset with me (see how lame I am), because I think he thinks we're doing well together and I think we've kind of reached what I can do with him, and I dont' go in there wanting to talk about my issues anymore...I find myself hiding them from him and that is not a good thing.