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I am quite currious as to what happened in the post Janine ,Question about Recovery and why it is Locked.. What is going on behind the scenes. I only read in that post that someone Pissed off Janine and because of that she won't help here anymore. If this is the case , this person should apologize, her posts here were helpful to many and for new people that might come here seeking help , well you may have just cost them some real insight. I don't know what if anything happened, but it certainly is sad that someone would be that selfish as to run off someone who was not only helpful but inspirational. If that is what happened I would suggest that the person that did this make amends with Janine so that others may benefit from her council and support.

The funny thing is that people may disagree on things and have different opinions without running off someone and especially someone who cares about us as much as Janine Baker.

Well Enough said, but sure would like to be enlightened as to what really happened. If this gets locked somehow please PM me.
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The place really is kind of lacking something without her, isn't it. Even when she just takes a break for a few weeks. It's certainly noticeable.

I'd be careful about casting too many aspersions on the person who "pissed her off" though. There are two sides to every story. I'm not saying one was right or the other wrong because i don't even know what all the hubbub is about or if indeed there is even any hubbub present. All I know is that Janine helps people out a great deal on here with her advice and insight. But more importantly, she compliments my witty diatribes in the Moderator section and when she's not here my posts languish there totally uncommented upon. I feel like a comedian perpetually awaiting applause, hopelessly suspended in the awkward silence that follows an ill-fated joke.
 
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I could use some Janine insight right about now

I haven't asked her for any in probably a year. But I get the feeling she doesn't like me anymore or something.
 

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If it is just a case she was taking a break, she deserves it.... I was currious because of the other post, and then suddenly it was locked.. So I don't know,I hope I haven't stirred the pot.. just was currious if anyone knew what that post was referring to and if she truly had felt insulted and left here.

Good Luck to all,, and SB how is your situation going?
 
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KC, I really don't even know to be honest. My mom is having a meeting with the social worker at the hospital today, Hopefully that will clarify some things.

But me right now, I feel like im in Hell.

I feel miserable and I have a job interview tommorrow & start another semester of college next week.

Thanks for asking

How have you been?
 

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She's a busy woman, and I think she's taking a break. I'm pretty sure Janine's not the kind of woman to leave a board for a few people crossing swords with her. If she were, she'd have left long ago.

Don't worry, I'm sure she'll pop in again when she has more time.
 

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Good Luck on the interview... sorry you are feeling so roughed up right now, but maybe when things settle down a bit witht he family your anxiety will level off some and dp/dr will get a little more toned down.

This anxiety and crap sucks for sure.. but somehow we are all going to come through this.

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soul,

that's a common part of depression/anxiety, is that one is inclined to think that others are ignoring them because they don't LIKE them (it could be many reasons), or that there is some other reason that people don't like them...depression is very egocentric..."if someone is laughing, i know they're making fun of me" "if someone is ignoring me, i know it's because they don't like me"

depression is a state of mind where you're desparate for self-importance, even if it's negative, so soemtiems when you say someone doesn't like you, it's partially a hope that their distant attitude is in some way related back to YOU, giving you importance in the picture.

what i'm trying to say is, you dont' know if she dislikes you or not.
 

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I thought Janine was taking a break too. I don't think she's the kind of lady to hold a grudge against anyone. I think her insight allows her to see things for what they are. I wish she would return soon as well, because most of the advice I dish out seems to come straight from my arse. :( And that's not a pretty sight.

Hold up, Sebastian - what Moderator section ? Why wasn't I immediately informed of this? I demand an explaination as to why I wasn't invited to come and join the fun. :evil:
 

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I want Janine back too, We NEED Janine back here.

I don't know what happened either but if some doesn't like her and ticked her off, too bad , majority rules!!

PLEASE COME BACK JANINE
 
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