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ok i know i am venting about yet another symptom but would just like to know if other people here have experienced it...

i have NO pressure in my head right now...nor have done in the past few days....

but now i have the feeling like i have no head or that the back of my head is not there or that there is nothing but cold air in the back of my head...

i know that NONE of these are real...just sensations lol...

but it feels so odd....

just wondering if anyone else has felt like this...

take care people :)
 
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wow. I used to feel like I didn't have a head and I thought I was the only person who experienced that. Don't worry, that's normal I guess... lol

It used to drive me NUTS. I used to feel like I would reach up to touch my head and I wouldn't have one. Very hard to explain but really weird.

In this case I think it's just anxiety. You feel maybe light-headed so because your nervous system is so aggitated you have unrational thoughts such as "Oh wow do I even have a head?" and then you freak out because you're so vulnerable to those thoughts that it produces a fearful sensation that makes the whole "I dont have a head" thought seem so true to form.

Don't worry. This is just anxiety getting the best of you.

Like Janine said, when I experienced weird symptoms like this, I would say, "There I go again..." and try my best to ignore it.

The key is not reacting to your thoughts so eventually you don't fear them anymore. Fear is powerful, it produces amazing real-feeling sensations. The brain is so amazing like that.

Shadowness just think of it like this... ok?

Aggigated nervous system = anxiety
anxiety/uncomfortable symtpoms such as being light-headed, trembling, nausea, etc. = unrational thoughts (for example: I don't have a head!!!)
unrational thoughts = fear
fear = "wow this FEELS so REAL"

It's important to look at it in that way otherwise you're telling yourself, "I don't really have a head!"and you're forgetting why you even had that thought in the first place. Notice how it DOES start with a thought. Thoughts are VERY very very influentional to the brain. Someone once said, "You are what you think" It MAY 'feel' like you don't have a head, but you had the scary thought first due to anxiety like feelings.

Shadowness, you have a head but you're the only person who is going to be able to convince yourself of that. So stop reacting to your thoughts. This is very hard. But constantly working at it is the key. Just keep in mind next time why you had the scary thought.

One more thing - if you went up to a non-anxious person and said, "Hey do you ever feel like you don't have a head?" they would think about it, the reasoning part of their brain would say, "uhh... no??? what are you talking about??" and they would probably laugh. This is what anxiety does to you. Go up to a person with anxiety and ask them the same question. The reasoning part of their brain is fucntioning at a much lower level because the "Fight or flight" part of their brain has full control because they always feel frightened. Of course they're not going to be able to reason with themselves to say "No! That's silly!!" Even if they've never felt that before, the THOUGHT ALONE could produce a sense of fear within them.

Next time you "feel" like you don't have a head... keep this in mind sweetheart.
 
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lol I meant influential.

not influentional... hahaha wow.

Hey, it's my birthday, I'm not supposed to be using big words today. Give me a break! lol :shock: :lol:
 

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thank you everyone for your replies...

Kari...

i do already tell myself it is just anxiety and that i do have a head and all that...

the same way i know i am here and i know everything around me is real...

i am not kidding myself...not believing i am not real and not believing that everything around me is unreal....i know it is...

it is the sensation of feeling unreal and the feelings of all this that are really getting to me...

i know my head is here and i know everything is ok....but it does not FEEL like it...

i do not mean for all that to sound like i am having a go at you lol...

so apologies if it sounds like i am argueing or sound aggitated hehehe

i know i obsess about my feelings too much...but it is hard not to when you fee these things all the time...
 
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Shadowness, I know you're not trying to have go at me. See, I truly believe all of these things we 'feel' here start with the scary thought. But hmm...

I still think not reacting with fear is the key here. And I wish you could see how temporary this is.

Back in July I e-mailed Janine and I was DESPERATE for ANYTHING. Answers, advice, reasurance, ANYTHING. It felt so forever then. like I would have it forever.

Now it's October and I don't even remember what it felt like. lol. Seriously... I can't even remember how DP/DR/anxiety feels.

I wish people could see how temporary this is for most of them.

DP/DR was a result of a bad reaction to a drug for me. and for you too. just please trust me when I say you will be free of this someday. Not as soon as you wish you were, but you will be.
 

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Kari said:
Shadowness, I know you're not trying to have go at me. See, I truly believe all of these things we 'feel' here start with the scary thought. But hmm...

I still think not reacting with fear is the key here. And I wish you could see how temporary this is.

Back in July I e-mailed Janine and I was DESPERATE for ANYTHING. Answers, advice, reasurance, ANYTHING. It felt so forever then. like I would have it forever.

Now it's October and I don't even remember what it felt like. lol. Seriously... I can't even remember how DP/DR/anxiety feels.

I wish people could see how temporary this is for most of them.

DP/DR was a result of a bad reaction to a drug for me. and for you too. just please trust me when I say you will be free of this someday. Not as soon as you wish you were, but you will be.
thank you very much Kari....

and i really respect ad believe in what you are saying :)

thank you very much...

be gone dp and dr! be gone! haha!
 
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Disconnected feelings: In bed i'll close my eyes and all limbs will just disappear. I've always associated this with my DXM used a while back. Nothing serious though.

Head Pressure: This one I associate with DP DR. Its just a symptom of anxiety. I sometimes have constant pressure, not like a headache. I also started getting headaches within the past year. I've never had one before that. I've only had DP DR for the past year, too obvious to be a coincidence.
 
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