[babybowrain]

Not sure if I want children or not. I don't know why. It's so scary. At 28 I don't know if I'm ready for it. I don't remember a thing my mother has said to me. I have no brothers or sisters. My mother never prepared me for motherhood. My father has left the family. It's all quite strange. I have no clue where he is or what will happen to him. And worst of all, my mother was the scariest person I've ever met.

 

[Martcostan]

At 28, taking into account the fear of becoming a mother is not worth it. I think you will always have time to do it, and if biologically you cannot give birth, there is adoption.

 

[kerrywentling]

I understand you very well. I was also afraid of becoming a mom for a very long time. The birth of a child is always a big responsibility, and you need to be ready for it. You should have a good job, housing, and money for the first months of your life. If this is not the case, you should not give birth because motherhood will be a real test. I support the idea of adoption since I applied to an adoption agency when I turned 45, and I was ready to become a mom. Now I am raising wonderful twins. And I know that everything in my life has been done right.