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You're more experienced with this than i realized...your 4 year relationship probably has alot to do with your thinking habits. I have big time issues with relationships because of some crap i went through...your mind is geared exactly like mine, for instance i see everything you wrote and i immediately feel like I have to understand every thing before i can give a reply and then my reply would have to be equal in size and depth. I had the same attitude towards hobbies, if im going to do something i have to be absolute best in the world at it and when that is not achievable it gets me in a rut...does this type of thinking sound familiar??? You see the common theme in that train of thought I have?? I am looking for validation of my identity, something that helps me feel as if i standout from others.
