When I read this post a few days ago, I wrote my answer. I had no intention of posting it, because it is too nasty, too unpleasant. But I will post it now, because, well, I don't know, because, I guess, I think it is the truth. But please take this in context. The "IF" that begins the paragraph is important. And more important, understand that this was written from within my own, perhaps idiosyncratic, depths. Anyway:
If your boyfriend has DP, the DP that I have now, and that I have had, non-stop, for many years, (and which is described by the data-driven criteria in the Merick Manuel, the DSMIV, and professional sources such as Dr. Simeon) . . . well, I?m so sorry to say this, but your boyfriend has ceased to be a human being and has become some kind of meat-robot. He may be very kind, intelligent, decent, etc., and can continue to be a good and interesting friend, but for a boy friend, you should prefer another human being like yourself, not this well-meaning thing that your boyfriend has, for whatever reason, become. You should leave, and you should not feel guilty about it.