I had a disturbing thought today. And I'm not sure why it was disturbing really but its been bugging me. I was talking to a guy today at lunch who was talking about an argument he had just had with his girlfriend. And he mentioned about his friends relationships, "This is when we're all settling down you know, to get married." And I remember a sex and the city episode where Miranda said men have a light that goes on when they're ready to get married and so they find someone to marry and marry that person. Unlike women who marry whenever if we fall in love. I know it sounds stupid, but do men reach an age where they say, "I need to get married." And then just marry whoever the best person is at the time? I imagine some women may do this too, but I know for me, I see marriage as a long way off, mainly because I'm single and don't see that changing any time soon. Plus, I need to finish school and get my career going and all. But what if I get old and all the men's "lights" have already gone off and I missed it and am left with no one? So do you guys just decide you need to get married and find someone or just marry who you are with at the moment because it's the "right time"? And for the women out there, leave someone for me!