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I wonder if the true culprit is EOCD for many of us...?

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Hi, all.

Many of you know my recent trip to a psychologist didn't exactly go well. I explained my symptoms to her and she actually suggested I had some sort of amnesia (for the DP/DR) and repressed anger (for the violent intrusive thoughts I tend to get). I left feeling defeated and pretty darn upset. She obviously knew nothing about...psychology, which baffled me.

Since then, I've been reading up on CBT as a way to help with intrusive thoughts. I couldn't see myself in the book I was reading other than the violent intrusive thoughts, so I thought "hey, I'm going to email the psychologist who wrote this book and tell him everything to see if his book could still help." So I did. I told him that I have thoughts that everything around me isn't real, my family isn't real, who am I anyway?, why do humans look the way they do, I find it strange our thoughts work the way they do, that time works the way it does, do we remember things, how do I know things actually happened?, that we're all just walking brains and it's freaking me out, and that I also get violent thoughts sometimes, a fear that I'll just lose control one day and hurt my loved ones or myself in a moment of impulse or insanity. I basically told him I feel confused about everything and have a fear I'm going crazy: why would I think so deeply about these things? Why would I question my own reality?

He emailed me back a few days ago and said I was exhibiting common symptoms of something known as existential OCD, or EOCD. It's lesser known than other forms of OCD but involves things such as:

-questioning reality, what makes reality true. the fear that everything around you isn't real, that everything around you is made up in your head.

-questioning how common things work; questioning why we look the way we do or how our bodies and minds work. why are we here anyway? what's the point of all this?

-questioning how time works, why the sky looks the way it does, why languages exist and how we communicate as humans, etc

-looking in the mirror and wondering why you look the way you do and what makes you, you.

-etc, etc, etc. basically philosophical and existential questions about why things or beings are the way they are and the inability to prove everything/anything.

He told me that the best way to combat EOCD is through cognitive behavioral therapy, CBT, as you would any other type of OCD.

After he sent me the email and then also reading (and rereading) a lot of posts on here, I wonder if many of us have EOCD with DP/DR just as a side effect of constant anxiety due to the OCD. Maybe some other people have already come to this realization, but I thought it was worth sharing!

This could mean that many of us who actually do have EOCD rather than "just" DP/DR could be treated with cognitive behavioral therapy and exposure therapy. I've been reading a lot on here these past few days people afraid to leave the house "in this state", exposure response therapy and CBT might be the right option for them.

This in no way is saying that there aren't people who genuinely have DPD without OCD, but I truly am starting to think that some of us have OCD (EOCD to be exact) rather than JUST dp/dr. The DP/DR is simply an after effect of all the thinking (IE: I keep having thoughts that everything around me looks weird, off and not it actually DOES look off, weird and unreal). (everywhere I've read DP/DR happens in times of severe, constant anxiety...and as someone who has had pretty extreme OCD for the past two years...the anxiety can be debilitating) And CBT might help with this, which in turn will help with the tendency to dissociate.

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I wouldn't doubt it if it had some correlation with DP. It seems many of us, including myself, tend to exhibit obsessive thoughts. I do think that OCD is just another form of anxiety. As I had replied to someone else's post in regards to anxiety, is that it is a crafty and sneaky little bastard and deceives you in any way it can. The irony here is that this anxiety comes from your mind and so it almost seems like a contest between your rational side versus the frightened emotional side.

Anxiety manifests itself in many forms, OCD would not be an exception. Although I've heard that some OCD sufferers do not necessarily suffer form anxiety, I somewhat believe that there is in fact some anxiety acting as the catalyst, albeit to a lesser degree.

One more thing I have to say is that, personally, I wouldn't distinguish between EOCD and OCD. I think OCD is OCD. Be it existential or not, at the heart of the matter, they are still obsessive intrusive thoughts that further perpetuate a cycle of fear, worry and anxiety.

CBT does help as well as DBT (first-hand experience).

Everyone at some point questions reality. I've heard kids questioning things all the time. They don't however ruminated over these things like some of us do. The difference lies in predisposition, environment and overall health of the individual. I think of DP as an over-stimulated receiver that is picking up all the freaking channels and can't decide which one to stay on, leaving the 'self' in some limbo. Speaking of the self, it is also hyper-awareness.
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