this is mostly just a ramble i'm writing. seems to me like you have problems communicating and establishing "rapport" which just means not being in the same "groove" as other people are when they talk and stuff. i definitely have this problem, establishing communication, effective communication after all is extremely important in this day and age. so you can't get along? do you do what i do? not give a shit? what else can i do, what better way of coping is there than lying on my couch all un-motivated in the land of the free... home of dp.