@Bobjenkind,
When I had my first big onset of DPDR, it came along with depression. I do not know what was the exact cause, but eating felt weird. At the time, I so lost connection to my body, that everything that one usually does routinely seemed strange, including eating. It was easier to drink, just water, or to sip tea. I would put a little bit of biscuit in my tea, so that I can swallow more easily. Perhaps you can find food that makes it easier for you to swallow and digest.
I don't have a comment on the more feminine part, I guess you think it has something to do with hormones?
Take care,
A.
