Hi Somebodyelse,
Yep, definitely ignore it to the best of your ability. And if you should see it, acknowledge it as a symptom of your disorder and move right along. Under no circumstances invite IT in for tea. :wink:
It is a challenge to do this. It took me a long time because we want so bad to understand it. We have understood most everything else in our lifetime, why can't we understand, fix it and go about our lives? Sigh...I don't know. But trying to contemplate on it only feeds the damn beast.
It could have hit you at the computer. It could have been lurking around for a while. Who knows? It's good not to try and think of this one either. I guess it sounds like I'm basically offering advice of just don't think, huh? Yeah, don't think and don't open your eyes. :lol:
I think Milan's shrink had great advice, as did Milan. Ignore it. The longer you work on this skill the better you will get at it. It does take time and there will still be times when it will be there. Hopefully you will have gotten to a place where it does not cause you anxiety and you can acknowledge it and move on.
Good luck!
Yep, definitely ignore it to the best of your ability. And if you should see it, acknowledge it as a symptom of your disorder and move right along. Under no circumstances invite IT in for tea. :wink:
It is a challenge to do this. It took me a long time because we want so bad to understand it. We have understood most everything else in our lifetime, why can't we understand, fix it and go about our lives? Sigh...I don't know. But trying to contemplate on it only feeds the damn beast.
It could have hit you at the computer. It could have been lurking around for a while. Who knows? It's good not to try and think of this one either. I guess it sounds like I'm basically offering advice of just don't think, huh? Yeah, don't think and don't open your eyes. :lol:
I think Milan's shrink had great advice, as did Milan. Ignore it. The longer you work on this skill the better you will get at it. It does take time and there will still be times when it will be there. Hopefully you will have gotten to a place where it does not cause you anxiety and you can acknowledge it and move on.
Good luck!