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I'm still concerned about the body hair post. Now why is it, that women have to trim their pubic hair, but men don't have to trim theirs? I wish all the men here would shave there just once so they can walk around for a week and know the torture that is razor burn. I challenge you men to try it, I promise it will grow back. It can even be kinda sexy.
 

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I don't think women have to do that, it is up to women whether to shave one's pubes or not. Indeed if a man insists that his girlfriend should shave her privates and doesn't give up - in that case I think it is time to put that boyfriend to a recycle bin and find a new one. And the same can be said about shaving one's legs. ;)
 

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It's just a social convention I guess.
Although I would agree that there shouldn't be double standards in a relationship. If your boyfriend's a smelly fat slob with bad personal hygiene, than for him to expect you to groom your pubic hair is clearly unacceptable.
Generally though I think that both sexs should groom their pubic hair, but it's not really that important.
 
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(just lying in wait for Dreamer to get involved with this thread. At which point I will pounce :) )

For what it's worth, I'm fine with the........European, or French look for women. Nothing wrong with going with what God gave you. Especially considering how furry I am.
 
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some men actually do trim that region, just like some men shave or trim their chest hairs.

I think if a female doesn't shave that region, that she should at least trim it so that it looks clean. A jungle is a big NO NO as far as im concerned, lol
 
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It's O.K. Bro. Though I think it's kinda weird for a guy, you wanna keep shaving your nether regions - go for it.
Don't let dream's chicken envy get you down.
 

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i think i'm going to vomit...

my god, people...can't anything be left to the imagination anymore...must everything be reduced to the disgustingly literal? Am i the only one who feels yucky talking about this kind of stuff...

"I've got this rash under by testacles...do you think i should still shave my pubes there?" <shudder>...<gag>...<vomit>

And for you jackals about to pound on me with your "Well, you don't have to come to this thread then sebastian!", i have nothing against the thread per se, but just society in general...it's like those female empowerment girl-bands like that "Now You Suck..." song that was all the rage about a decade ago. I don't want to hear about that kind of stuff. It's just too damn intimate or something. Why does everything have to be spelled out? What happened to mystery...the female goddess...that kind of thing. We used to speak of roses and birds and chocolate covered espresso beans...now we talk about "pubes", maxi pads, and our various rashes.

Pull yourselves out of the gutter, ye literal concubines!

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Atta boy Sebastian. Agree completely. Though I still want Dreamer to get involved here. I could have soooo much fun :)
 

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SoulBrotha said:
some men actually do trim that region, just like some men shave or trim their chest hairs.

I think if a female doesn't shave that region, that she should at least trim it so that it looks clean. A jungle is a big NO NO as far as im concerned, lol
First of all, Sebastian, God Bless you, LOL -- some common decency!

Bro, another comment about how "you like your women." You again seem to talk about them as objects.

SC all I hear is that song, "Don't touch that!" LOLOLOLOL. It's used in a commercial about germ on TV. Who wrote that and what is it REALLY about, LOL?

Don't know what you're hoping I'll say here, but suffice it to say, there are certain areas of a man's or a woman's body that I like being left as Nature intended. I love ya' dude. 8)

I thought of something horrible last night about this discussion. Pedophiles prefer only prepubescent children -- girls or boys. As soon as they have genital hair (forigive me Sebastian, LOL, really!) the pedophile rejects them -- they are becoming adults.

No, I'm not calling anyone here a pedophile, but to be honest, again, I feel most comfortable au naturelle. That doesn't mean I stench, LOL.

Oh this is truly ridiculous, LOLOLOL.
But it's keeping me from taking a nap.

God Forgive Me.
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Ah, and I forgot to mention:

In one's youth, one does stupid things. Enneagirl's post might sum that up for me, LOLOLOLOL. :shock:

ONLY ONCE, NEVER AGAIN!
 

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I'll try to say this as tastefully as possible. When women do at least some trim work in their nether regions, it makes it easier and more enjoyable for men to partake in a certain activity. It is also better hygiene which helps in aforementioned activity. I would never say a total shave would be necessary.

I think a lot of guys are starting to do some grooming down there these days. I actually had a conversation with my pals about this a couple of weeks ago and was surprised how many people do that. I think the general consensus was that shaving is stupid but a little trim work is just good manners and better for women when it comes to another particluar activity.
 

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lighten up sebastian, everything in life doesn't have all romantic and symbolic. Now on the body hair thing. With my ex boyfriend, I used to shave my legs literally twice a day. Once in the morning, and once at night when I went to see him b/c I would start getting stubble. Twice a day ladies. Was I in love or what? And my other regions. But I didn't shave them twice a day. It's so much fun being single and not having to worry about all that stuff BUT lately I'm wanting to trim it (I've been shopping for trimmer thing's) because it does sometimes feel cleaner. The one thing I always shave regardless of anything is my arm pits. Sorry for the crude post. I just wanted to point out the double standard with men. Also Dreamer, some people do think it looks weird to wax the whole region because they feel like they look like a little girl. It does look kinda weird. Some men feel that way too but I think most men like it trimmed.
 
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I can't say that I speak for most men, but I do at least speak for this man - it's fine either way. It's great either way actually. Honest. So much of what women do in the name of ....... being attractive to men is really being done for other reasons. Example - why do women tend to worry more than men about what they wear? Answer - because they are dressing up for other women. I don't know if it's competition or what, but most men, and I think I'm safe with this generalization, would be just as happy with a women in faded jeans and a t-shirt as they would a woman in a thousand dollar dress. It's the same with make-up. Ladies - you are doing that for each other, not for guys. For one thing - we want to know what you really look like, and for another..... I like women to be as natural as possible. I want to know them for who they are, both physically and emotionally.
One final comment about ........ trimming in the nether regions. Just remember - the more you do it, the more you HAVE to do it. Just ask my wife
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p.s. I am disappointed with your response Dreamer. Nothing there that I can really make fun of. Oh well. I'm sure I will have other opportunities
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This whole thread has me ROARING, but Gimpy, you win the prize for being a true gentleman. Thank you. I enjoyed your post, LOL, seriously.
Sigh. 8)
 

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p.s. I am disappointed with your response Dreamer. Nothing there that I can really make fun of. Oh well. I'm sure I will have other opportunities :twisted:
And HOWLING again.

I honestly didn't know what you want me to say. Yer scarin' the 'ell outta' me.

Sometimes I really enjoy "That's Life." Best section on the board. :shock:
 

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enneagirl, It's simple...do whatever you feel most comfortable with. Issues like this are a good boyfriend filter....if a man thinks you're obliged to be any way other than nature intended then he's obviously a shallow prick with a barbie doll fetish. Find another man who values what's important, not the length of your curly clock springs.
 

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I'm confused - are some people suggesting that a completely shaved pubic area shouuld be the norm? If so I find it quite bizarre, because when I was growing up it would have been considered very strange. Surely it's a trend led by pornography?
I think it's a sign that some men want women to be children, and the fear of body hair in general is a sign that humans don't want to be reminded that they are animals.
I would be quite disturbed to go bed with a woman with no pubic hair. It would get some getting used to. I regret that I grew up conditioned to prefer hairless legs and armpits on a woman. To extend this baldness fetish any further seems ridiculous to me.[/b]
 

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I like my hair the way it is!

I shave my legs though

Anyone with a bald fetish need not apply :)
 

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Rev, I think it really came in style when everyone started talking about the Brazilian wax. It was in all the fashion magazines, etc. About 10 or less years ago. Actually porn probably did start it because in the 80's in porn women were au natural but now everyone is completely bald down there.
 
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