being blamed for parents illness

hi martin
i was actually nearly thrown out of the house this week....but one minute im being asked to help out with chores (which i do anyway) and then im being told 'your dad needs his space' its justa mind fuck...
but on a good note ive just been down the local mental health resource centre and landed myself a kitchen job for a few hours a week so they can have there space for a few hours a day....the trouble is this is just adding to my bitterness because when i do eventually get my place i know that the phone is going to soon start ringing with my mum asking if i can come around and help my dad..

now do i act cynical and say 'tough you got what you wanted' or do i pop around here smartish....i might sound bitter but i wish theyd make there minds up..

life sucks big plums eh

what happened to the job in basingstoke by the way ?

ha ha !
faking my own death wouldnt be a bad thing lol im actually on the housing list here but its catch 22 while im not working i remain on the list but as soon as i start full time work im taken off....its a sorry situation no-one can afford to buy there own place,everyone has to rent,and it just gets me mad as hell...i had to have a serious workout today to release all my anger,infact ive been working out ,cycling,walking just to stay calm....and now ! my mums being nice as pie to me ....i think shes skhizo i seriously do

well it could be either redundancy...contract ran out,or late days due to heavy nights

dakotajo said:

Jc,

Find your own place. You need to create some seperation from your parents. It will be a healthy move for both you and your parents.

Joe

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your so right,im just racking my brains as to where i can go

the gutter could soon be an option

the hardest part for me what with all this pressure is staying away from the drink...but my sunday meetings help