Shadow. I am sorry to hear of your situation. I liked what gfunk said, that in a very real situation such as this we can respond quite normally, for neurosis is not part of what is going on. I have never felt more deeply and been so sad as when my father passed. It was so real that I had no option but to "be there". And this was at a time in my life when my dp/dr symptoms were at their very worst. I will be thinking of you. Take care.
jft
jft
