Anyone Had To Go Through...

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shadowness

Discussion Starter · Feb 21, 2005

the death of a family/friend member whilst in a dp/dr state?

my nan is very sick and may not be around much longer...

this scares me more than anything in the world right now! she is my closest family member and death scares me so very much...but the death of another REALLY scares me much more!

these thoughts make me feel so sick and even more dp'ed and dr'ed...

i am trying not to think of all this but it is so hard not to...

anyone else relate to what i am talking about?

how did the loss of a loved one effect your dp/dr?

i know it sounds selfish but i am scared how my dp/dr might change in such a situation...i am really trying not to think like this but it is so hard!

thank you for reading...

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terri*

· #3 · Feb 21, 2005

Dear Shadowness,

I have had to deal with the loss of many persons while dealing with this disorder...one pretty much died in my arms.

As g-funk said, you do find the inner strength. It does not seem like we will be able to live thru it when we think of it, as when I think of my mom and dad passing, but we deal with the immediate, grieve and move on.

I think this kind of goes back to the dealing with loss thread. I simply have the worst time dealing with loss.

I will be thinking of you and your precious nan.

Most sincerely,
terri

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