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the death of a family/friend member whilst in a dp/dr state?

my nan is very sick and may not be around much longer...

this scares me more than anything in the world right now! she is my closest family member and death scares me so very much...but the death of another REALLY scares me much more!

these thoughts make me feel so sick and even more dp'ed and dr'ed...

i am trying not to think of all this but it is so hard not to...

anyone else relate to what i am talking about?

how did the loss of a loved one effect your dp/dr?

i know it sounds selfish but i am scared how my dp/dr might change in such a situation...i am really trying not to think like this but it is so hard!

thank you for reading...
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I am so sorry you are going through this very difficult and painful time. I understand how you are feeling and my heart goes out to you at this sad time. I am going through this also. My father is dying of cancer, he was given about a month to live a couple of months ago and he is still fighting. Anytime I will hear that he is no longer with us. I cannot describe the pain I am in, my situation is a little different than yours, my dad did not want to see me which is also very painful. I cry into his picture that is all I have left right now to hold onto. This illness has a high price to pay at times, very sad though he could not accept his daughter being ill, instead of support the family chose to walk away. I know I will never see him or my family ever again and it is a terribly painful experience for anyone.

The love you and your family member have is very precious. It is okay to reach out and recieve comfort from others. It is important that you allow yourself time and support. My prayers will be with you at this time. Please never feel alone we are all here to support and help each other. It is also okay to come here and talk about your sadness, at times like this it is very helpful to be around others who understand how you feel.

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