wish there was something i could say to help but its one of the symptoms....i find mirrors hellish....i talk shit at my partner because i really dont know what i am going to say....infact i think i can be quite hurtful.....but i know what you mean with the feeling of not knowing your husband...i feel the same.....stranger to myself and every one lse is a stranger to me....but there is enough people who have got through this.....i am positive it will all click into place one day