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yuri

Member Since 03 Sep 2019
Offline Last Active May 20 2020 04:07 PM
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In Topic: Some tips.

06 May 2020 - 04:11 PM

Also another thing that I found hard to see and accept was that DpDr gives safety in a way. A false sense of security. You close yourself in a small box, if the world is scary the little box is safe right? And while your in that box you dont have to face the hard facts. For me it is that my mother and cat are getting old and maybe I loose these two important beings in the not so distant future, Im getting old and I have no job, education, family, girlfriend or social life, Im behind and far away from my goals, hope and dreams, the world is feels more chaotic each year ETC. You hide in your DpDr box and all the realistic things you worry about they will sooner or later happen to you but you wont feel anything in your box. Not any negative emotion, no positive emotions ether. You're numb to the world. Your safe from emotional hurt but your life is in shambles. Its not worth it. Better to live with the fear, a. Accept it and it cant hurt you. Its hard to acknowledge that the thing you hate gives you the illusion of safety. Its hard to leave safety even if you're trapped in a small box that you hate. Its like the baby bird who jumps from the nest to fly. Im gonna jump this box soon, I can feel it. Then Im going to fucking fly. Hope you to will do that some day.


In Topic: So my feelings are back and it is at times fucking scarry. Help plz

18 December 2019 - 05:40 PM

I have a fear that if I stop listening to my fears about everything I will die a horrible death. It feels like if I just can move past this fear this horrible and fearful time of DP/DR finally will be over. Help please.


In Topic: Cold showers (Wim Hof)

29 September 2019 - 10:58 AM

I'll try this! The breathing already helped me in some moments

Good luck. Hope it will help you. I say it does my days 1 point better on a scale from one to ten. Sometimes more then that. :)


In Topic: Talking of symptoms, letting it out.

29 September 2019 - 10:57 AM

Wow man. So much of what you describe especially in the first few paragraphs I've experienced and still am. Not being able to take stuff in... i tried to explain this to my mother. Whether or not people realise it they have an emotional connection and resonance with objects that you really notice when it's absent.

Old photographs, and even old videos. I see a complete man, with desires and ability to enjoy life, newer photos i see just a shell.

Understanding things logically but not emotionally.. so much of this man. I'm aware of my surroundings and events that happen, but it takes me years to understand events on an emotional level. And even then most life events just pass me by now and do not even make it into the subconcious.

I understand your pain. You sound like you're doing well. Kudos

 

Thank you for your uplifting words.


In Topic: Does really distracting you from the feelings/thougts from DP cure it?

21 September 2019 - 09:46 AM

Eddy and Perfect Fifth,

 

Dont cry. DP isnt that bad. Just gotta toughen up a little, man. wink.png

 

Its so true. 

 

It can be so much worse.

 

Just stop it. Your acting is pathetic. You claim to beaten DP but you haven't matured the slightest from it. You just acts like a troll trying to rile people up. If this is your idea of helping people you should really reconsider.