so now I know this works...
I'm ayesha, I'm 24, and I live with my carer who is called rachel.
I was born without proper use of my lower body, so she helps me with daily tasks (which sometimes can be embarrassing, but it's what it is)
with me, I can say I need something, but not have the control to do it.
so for example: I'll say to her I want food, but can't cook
or I want to go to bed, but can't actually get in to bed because I can't use my legs
I joined this forum because of flashbacks and other issues that started for me after my mother abused me. it was terrible, and the sadest part is that she still tries. though we live apart, it doesn't stop her..
anyway that's more about me