help with parents
Posted 03 October 2019 - 10:16 AM
Posted 03 October 2019 - 12:14 PM
Posted 03 October 2019 - 07:30 PM
Your surgery recently mightve been the cause yes, but your not in some comatose state. Surgery can cause dp/dr though its not the most common cause. Dp/dr is caused bt stress or chemical changes in your body. Your surgery may have done one or both those things. Surgerys are stressful! I dont blame for freaking out about the dpdr, its incredibly surreal and crazy and scary.
My advice? Sit down and read a book, or meditate, get a project going, do something thatll distract you from this for a little at least. I know its hard but you need to learn to not rely on other people to make you feel better. This is very hard to do, i know. But your parents wont be around forever plus you have a separate life from them.
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Posted 04 October 2019 - 05:23 AM
Pasha, you have been flooding this forum for about 7-8 consecutive days now. Everyone here has been telling you that you are suffering from severe anxiety. No psychotic stuff or anything else besides ANXIETY. Anxiety gives you the feeling of going crazy, but you are not, okay? Now if you don't trust us, then seek medical support from a professional, because no matter what we say, you keep refering to psychosis or other stuff you DON'T HAVE.
Don't get me wrong, we wanna help you out, but for us to help you, you got to atleast start trusting us and start listening.. I feel for you, because having this much anxiety is horrible, It might even be worse then being psychotic because then atleast you won't know something is wrong (and medication will get you out of a psychosis fast).
What I would suggest (and this is sololy my opinion) is for you to go see a professional and ask for something that can calm you down (maybe a short term benzo, don't make the mistake that I did and take it long term). You're anxiety seems out of control and I think taking something that relaxes you can give you some time to think rationally and figure out what next steps to take.
Take care and stay safe.
Posted 04 October 2019 - 11:35 AM
you can't ask others to make unreasonable sacrifices due to your illness. You have to make efforts to cope with uncomfortable situations. It will be difficult. Many of us have been there, and worked through it.
It just has to be done.
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